Gray is top tier in family law — knowledgeable, strategic, and relentless when it comes to protecting his clients. If you want someone who knows the system and knows how to navigate it successfully, call Ellis Family Law. Amazing Attorneys!
Ellis Family Law was built to help people navigate some of life’s most personal and high-stakes moments with clarity, strategy, and genuine care. Gray Ellis is the Founder and Managing Partner of the firm, and for more than 20 years, he has helped shape the standards, culture, and approach that guide the team’s work every day.
Gray is a North Carolina Board Certified Specialist in Family Law—a distinction held by fewer than 2% of family law practitioners statewide—and has been recognized for excellence by multiple independent attorney rating organizations. Today, his role is focused on leadership and oversight: ensuring the firm delivers exceptional service, strong advocacy, and consistent client experience across every case.
Perspective matters in family law, and Gray brings it both professionally and personally. As a parent who has experienced separation, he understands how stressful and disorienting this process can be—especially when children and long-term stability are at stake. That insight informs how he leads the firm: with high expectations, empathy, and a deep commitment to protecting families through transition.
While Gray does not personally accept new matters, he plays an active role in ensuring clients receive the right attorney and the right strategy:
Gray also believes strongly in serving the broader community. He was a Board Member of Meals on Wheels Durham and created the Feed the Need Gala, an annual effort supporting seniors facing nutritional challenges.
Outside the office, Gray enjoys tennis, golf, traveling, and ACC sports.
To get started, schedule a consultation with one of our attorneys. We’ll match you with the best-fit advocate for your situation and help you move forward with a clear plan.
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Gray is top tier in family law — knowledgeable, strategic, and relentless when it comes to protecting his clients. If you want someone who knows the system and knows how...
Gray is top tier in family law — knowledgeable, strategic, and relentless when it comes to protecting his clients. If you want someone who knows the system and knows how to navigate it successfully, call Ellis Family Law. Amazing Attorneys!
I called Ellis Family Law because I needed to get my will updated. I was able to see Mr. Ellis the next day. Within a few days the updated document...
I called Ellis Family Law because I needed to get my will updated. I was able to see Mr. Ellis the next day. Within a few days the updated document was ready to be signed. Great service.
I used Ellis Law Firm in Durham, NC after my father moved to NC. Gray Ellis set up my father’s POAs for Medical and Financial. His genuine concern for my...
I used Ellis Law Firm in Durham, NC after my father moved to NC. Gray Ellis set up my father’s POAs for Medical and Financial. His genuine concern for my dad’s well being went beyond reproach. He patiently listened and gave coherent answers that my 83 father could comprehend.
The entire process went smoothly and their follow-up was on point. Not all law firms are equally up to the total task on so many legal fronts as Ellis Law.
Thank you Gray and shout to your colleagues too…simply “The Best”.
Patrick Tighe
Gray is knowledgeable and ethical. Truly a specialist. He gives back to the community in a variety of ways as well. Hire him before your spouse does!
...Gray is knowledgeable and ethical. Truly a specialist. He gives back to the community in a variety of ways as well. Hire him before your spouse does!
I absolutely love Ellis Law and all they’ve done for our family. The team is absolutely amazing. Gray is a real expert/specialist in his field and I can’t express enough...
I absolutely love Ellis Law and all they’ve done for our family. The team is absolutely amazing. Gray is a real expert/specialist in his field and I can’t express enough how impressed I am with him and his team. If you need family law, look no further. You’ve found the best.
Gray Ellis and Jillian Mack were excellent lawyers and represented me regarding child custody issues. Attorney Ellis was the primary defense lawyer in a seminal case that defined the term...
Gray Ellis and Jillian Mack were excellent lawyers and represented me regarding child custody issues. Attorney Ellis was the primary defense lawyer in a seminal case that defined the term “legal custody” in North Carolina– the above information is on their site. This law firm was highly recommended by others for child custody issues which is why I selected Ellis Family Law.
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