Grandparents And Third-Party Custody Actions

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Do Grandparents Have Rights In Custody Disputes?

In legal disputes over child custody and visitation, people often overlook an important presence in the child’s life – the grandparents.

In North Carolina, grandparents have limited rights in terms of seeking custody and visitation. Grandparents may intervene directly in a custody action, but only while an open lawsuit between the parents is pending. If you are a grandparent seeking visitation rights, time is of the essence. If you wait until the custody action is resolved, you lose important rights.

Once the custody action is resolved, grandparents may seek custody rights, but only in relatively rare circumstances. In order for a grandparent to gain custody of a child,  the parents must unfit, waive their rights or be acting inconsistent with their rights.

Talk with an attorney at Ellis Family Law, to gain valuable advice and representation regarding grandparents’ rights in North Carolina. We handle child custody and visitation matters for clients in the Triangle area from our offices in Durham, Cary, Pittsboro and Wake Forest.

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Third-Party Custody Actions

In North Carolina, any third party, including aunts, uncles, siblings and family friends, may seek custody of a child. As with grandparent custody, the circumstances must be extreme. The parents must be unfit or have waived their constitutional parental rights.

Third-party child custody cases are very fact-specific and courts do not give custody rights to third parties without good cause. We cannot tell you how your custody case is likely to unfold without a thorough accounting of the factors at play.

Frequently Asked Questions About Grandparent And Third-Party Custody

Can grandparents seek emergency custody of grandchildren?

Emergency custody is a temporary transfer of custodial rights when a child’s welfare and safety are at immediate risk. Grandparents can request emergency custody in situations of domestic violence, substance abuse, child abuse or neglect. However, requesting emergency custody does not guarantee it will be granted. The court will consider the case carefully to determine whether the situation warrants the immediate removal of the child to a grandparent’s care.

While most grandparents are involved with their grandchildren’s lives naturally, some grandparents may receive pushback from one of the parents. If one parent doesn’t want you around or cuts you off from seeing your grandchild, what are your options? If you cannot resolve this matter through discussion with the parents on your own,and the parents are involved in active custody litigation, grandparents can file a motion to intervene to request visitation rights. You will have to demonstrate that visitation is in the child’s best interests.

Seeking custody or visitation as a grandparent or other third party is often a complex area of custody law. Grandparents can seek custody or visitation in certain situations, including:

  • If the parents are in a custody dispute through the court
  • If the parents are unfit or otherwise unable to care for the child, such as the parent or parents are disabled or developed a serious substance addiction
  • If the parents have willfully abandoned the child with the grandparents

If the parents are involved in a custody matter and the grandparents intervene seeking visitation, they have to provide evidence that a substantial relationship exists with their grandchild to the court and that their request for visitation is within the best interests of the child.

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