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When parents separate or divorce, determining where children will live and how parenting responsibilities will be shared is often the most emotionally challenging aspect of the process. North Carolina law prioritizes the best interests of the child in all custody decisions, but navigating the legal system can be complex and overwhelming for families already experiencing significant change. That’s why you need a local Wake Forest Child custody lawyer to help you succesfully traverse this system.
Ellis Family Law, P.L.L.C., provides compassionate, knowledgeable representation for families throughout Wake Forest and surrounding communities. Our attorneys have more than 50 years of combined experience handling complex child custody matters. From our Wake Forest office, we offer personalized guidance to help you create custody arrangements that protect your relationship with your children while meeting their needs.
North Carolina recognizes legal custody and physical child custody. Legal custody involves decision-making authority regarding education, health care, religious upbringing and other significant matters. Physical custody determines where the child lives and the parenting time schedule.
The court may award joint custody, giving both parents equal rights and responsibilities, or sole custody to one parent with visitation rights to the other. Many factors influence these determinations, including:
Our Wake Forest attorneys help you present the strongest case possible for your desired custody arrangement, always keeping your child’s best interests at the center of our strategy.
A well-crafted parenting plan can help avoid future conflicts and provide stability for your children. Our divorce lawyer team works closely with you to develop comprehensive agreements addressing regular parenting time schedules, holiday arrangements, transportation logistics, communication between parents and children, and methods for resolving future disagreements.
Even when parents agree on custody matters, having skilled legal representation helps ensure your agreement complies with North Carolina law and anticipates potential future challenges.
Life circumstances change, and custody arrangements sometimes need adjustment. If you need to modify an existing custody order or are facing issues with enforcement, our experienced attorneys can help you navigate the legal process and advocate for solutions that continue to serve your child’s best interests.
Our board-certified specialists lead every case with strategy, care, and a commitment to your best outcome.
Grateful for Sarah M. She was very pleasant to work with and made my process so much easier.
...Grateful for Sarah M. She was very pleasant to work with and made my process so much easier.
Tony Kehoe represented me in a highly contentious divorce with significant stakes in terms of finances, children, and personal safety. He handled my case with confidence backed by expertise. Tony’s...
Tony Kehoe represented me in a highly contentious divorce with significant stakes in terms of finances, children, and personal safety. He handled my case with confidence backed by expertise. Tony’s calm voice and steady demeanor were exactly what was needed to counteract the volatility of the opposing party.
Tony is exceptionally sharp, and no detail escapes his attention. My situation was complex and required work across multiple fronts to achieve the best possible outcome. I never once doubted that Tony was on top of everything. He was unafraid to dig into thousands of pages of financial records, texts, and emails when necessary—and he could do so in a fraction of the time it would have taken me. I never lay awake at night wondering, “What am I forgetting?” I cannot overstate how much that alone reduced my stress.
Despite becoming a target by association for near-constant personal threats and attacks from the other side, he tolerated it all and I never once saw him ruffled by it. His goal was always to resolve my case if possible, but never at the expense of an outcome that would allow my children and me to be whole again to the greatest extent possible. Tony continues to be my attorney if anything else comes up, and while I hope I won’t need him again, there is absolutely no doubt he will be my first phone call if I do.
I feel obligated to write a truthful review of my experience with Kathleen Murphy as my attorney. It has been an absolute nightmare since August 2 of 2024 the day...
I feel obligated to write a truthful review of my experience with Kathleen Murphy as my attorney. It has been an absolute nightmare since August 2 of 2024 the day I hired her. I requested that she file for custody of my daughter, and she instructed me that it was not the right time for that and not part of her strategy at that time. I trusted her expertise as I have never been through something like this. I continued to request every month since August 2024 for her to file For custody of my daughter And she kept giving me the same excuse. Her answer continued to be That she did not feel that was the right strategic move at this time and that she would deal with that later. During the last 15 months, I have been denied visits with my daughter by her other parent. My daughter continues to be told untruths about me, And I cannot do anything to facilitate reconciliation with her because Kathleen Murphy has filed no motions to get me any visitation and has failed to file for custody on my behalf despite the fact that I have paid her Approximately $100,000. I have been grossly misrepresented by Kathleen Murphy. I have been unable to communicate with her for months. She does not return emails. She does not return phone calls despite promising to do so. She does not do what she promises to do. This has been my own personal experience with her. I have had very little contact with her paralegal and almost no contact with Kathleen herself. I have followed her advice and done exactly what she has told me to do Since the day that I hired her. Her advice Has made My already difficult divorce even worse. She has put me approximately $100,000 in debt, I am still not divorced, as she refused to file it for me until I paid her an additional $2500, I still receive no salary from the businesses that I am a co-owner of because Kathleen Murphy has filed no motions on my behalf To get me a salary. I still do not have visitation with my daughter because Kathleen Murphy has failed to file for custody as she promised to do. I tried to fire Kathleen Murphy in March 2025 and she begged me not to and she promised me that she would give My case the attention that it deserved. She told me that I needed to give her a good review and so initially I did because I felt pressure to do so just to get her to work on my case. The review that I initially gave was what she wanted me to say not what really happened. I had to finally fire Kathleen Murphy And hire a new law firm. The law requires that Kathleen Murphy turn all of my files over to the new law firm and she has still refused to do that as of today. She has made it very difficult for my new law firm to properly represent me because she is still refusing to turn over my files. Even though I have already paid Kathleen Murphy approximately $100,000 and she has failed to file for my divorce and she has failed to file for custody of my daughter. She is still sending me bills for $15,000 and for $5000 additionally, Even after being fired, she continues to send me bills for work that she did not do and communication that she failed to have with me. I witnessed her being rude to me to her own paralegal, to a friend of mine, and to a retired judge. Based on my personal experience with her, the lack of communication that I received from her, The fact that I was not allowed access to her, and to her staff, the fact that I was not made aware and kept updated On my case, I cannot recommend this attorney to anyone. Sincerely, Teresa Hamaty
I highly recommend Sonya as an estate attorney. She listened carefully to my described goals and came up with a customized plan for my personal situation. She is an exceptionally...
I highly recommend Sonya as an estate attorney. She listened carefully to my described goals and came up with a customized plan for my personal situation. She is an exceptionally good communicator, very knowledgeable in the field of estate planning, easy to work with and an amiable person.
September 19, 2025 Dear Attorney Shannon Tucker: Thank you for the outstanding representation you provided for us on Wednesday, September 17, 2025, at our Temporary Custody Hearing. Your attention to...
September 19, 2025
Dear Attorney Shannon Tucker:
Thank you for the outstanding representation you provided for us on Wednesday, September 17, 2025, at our Temporary Custody Hearing.
Your attention to detail and commitment to excellence; and the picture of truth you painted for the Judge and all others present in the courtroom was outstanding.
You made a notable difference, resulting in that we still have custody of our beloved grandson. (There was not a dry eye in the courtroom).
We truly appreciate you; and we are grateful for the time and energy you’ve dedicated to our case.
We are blessed to have someone with your expert abilities representing us.
Sincerely and Love,
Rev. and Mrs. (Patricia) Corbett
Your attention to detail and commitment to excellance;
The decisions you make during your custody case will affect your family for years to come. Work with attorneys who understand both the legal complexities and emotional nuances of child custody matters. Contact Ellis Family Law, P.L.L.C., in Wake Forest.
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Ellis Family Law, P.L.L.C.
1740 Heritage Center Dr Suite 202, Wake Forest, NC 27587
Fax: 877-678-1584
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