If you get divorced in North Carolina, your marital assets and debts will be divided according to the law of equitable distribution. “Equitable” is presumed to be 50-50. However, there are financial factors the court can use to award one party a greater share of marital assets. For example, if one party has a higher earning capacity, the high-wage earner may receive less than 50% of marital assets.
When significant assets are at stake, it is important to get good legal advice as early as possible in the divorce process. With several board-certified specialists in family law, Ellis Family Law, P.L.L.C., is fully qualified to help you protect your separate property rights and obtain a fair distribution of marital property. We represent clients throughout the Triangle area from our offices in Durham, Raleigh, Cary, Pittsboro and Wake Forest.
Property you had before you were married is separate property and does not have to be divided except under certain circumstances. It is important to discuss your situation with a qualified attorney to address this situation.
All assets acquired during the course of the marriage and existing on the date of separation are presumed to be marital property. There are exceptions for gifts and inheritances given to one party.
If you have retirement benefits through your employer, the portion of those benefits earned during your marriage must be divided with your spouse unless the parties agree otherwise. This process often requires the preparation of a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO), which is a legal document that provides instructions to the retirement plan administrator on how to divide the retirement assets. It’s crucial to handle this correctly to ensure that both parties receive their fair share without incurring unnecessary taxes or penalties.
Property division in a divorce can quickly become complicated, especially in unique scenarios such as owning a business, multiple properties or other significant assets. Each situation is unique and requires careful consideration to ensure a fair division. Factors such as the valuation of a business, the division of real estate holdings and the management of shared investments can all add layers of complexity to the process.
If you create a prenuptial agreement prior to marriage, you can predefine how your assets should be divided in the event of a divorce. A prenuptial agreement allows you to bypass North Carolina’s equitable distribution and spousal support laws. By establishing a prenup, you can outline how to handle real estate properties, businesses, stocks, retirement accounts and other significant assets during divorce. As well as waive or include a spousal support provision in advance. As long as your prenup remains valid at the time of the divorce, the property division process will follow your prenuptial agreement instead of the typical rules for equitable distribution.
As with other property and assets, any shared and marital debt is also divided following equitable distribution laws. This can apply to credit card debts, student loan debts and other types of debt that were accrued during the marriage. However, the circumstances around how the debt was accrued may impact how it’s divided. Every case is considered separately. For example, if a spouse racks up a significant credit card debt by using the other spouse’s credit card without their knowledge, the court may not divide the debt between the spouses and instead determine that the spouse who accrued the debt is solely accountable for paying it off.
For student loan debts, loans that were taken out prior to getting married are not eligible for property division and remain separate property that you are responsible for yourself. However, if you’re in school while you were married and you took out a loan, this may be considered a marital debt. Various other factors will be considered. Understanding how your specific debts may impact your divorce can be complicated. We can help review your situation so you know what to expect moving forward.
The marital residence is treated like any other major asset: The court will classify it (marital/separate/mixed), determine its value (typically as of the date of separation for marital property), account for liens/mortgage to reach net value, and then distribute it equitably.
Common outcomes include:
If you can’t resolve property division by agreement, either spouse can ask the court for equitable distribution. The judge must identify marital and divisible property, value it, and then distribute it equitably (with a presumption of equal division unless an equal split would be inequitable under the statutory factors).
Important practical note: You can lose the ability to have the court divide property if you do not have an equitable distribution claim pending when the divorce is granted—so it’s something to address before finalizing the divorce judgment.
One of the most common concerns spouses have when it comes to property division is regarding their family home. Who will get to keep it? Do you have to sell the house? Homes purchased during the marriage with marital funds, or titled to both parties as tenants by the entirety, are considered marital property, so both spouses have an equal claim to the property. You can decide to sell the house and split the profits with your spouse, or you can buy out your spouse’s share if you wish to keep the home for yourself. Determining the best course of action depends on various factors, and our attorneys can help you choose what’s right for you.
In North Carolina, marital property generally includes all real and personal property acquired by either or both spouses during the marriage and before the date of separation, and still owned on the date of separation, unless it qualifies as separate property or divisible property.
North Carolina has a dedicated statute governing distribution of pension, retirement, and deferred compensation benefits in equitable distribution cases, including permissible methods of payment/distribution.
In most cases, you also need a plan-specific order such as:
The order has to match the plan’s rules so the administrator can legally divide/pay benefits.
Spousal support (alimony): Property division and alimony are separate, but they strongly influence each other in practice. The court considers factors including the spouses’ relative assets and liabilities, debt service, and tax ramifications, and it can also consider when “income” was already considered in the value of a marital/divisible asset in equitable distribution (to avoid double counting).
Child support: Child support in NC is driven primarily by the Child Support Guidelines, which focus on the parents’ income (and certain expenses like childcare/insurance and custody schedule). Property division doesn’t change guideline support, but the overall financial picture can matter in deviation arguments or “ability to pay” issues in appropriate cases.
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