At Ellis Family Law, our Raleigh child custody lawyers help families navigate this process with compassion, clarity, and a focus on the future. When parents separate, the most important question becomes: what’s best for the children?
Custody involves understanding legal rights, schedules, as well as protecting a child’s emotional well-being, maintaining stability, and ensuring that both parents can play meaningful roles in their child’s life. Whether you are establishing a custody plan during divorce or modifying a previous agreement, we are here to help you build a parenting arrangement that works for you and your child.
North Carolina law divides child custody into two categories:
Legal custody refers to a parent’s authority to make major decisions for the child, such as those involving healthcare, education, and religion. Parents may share legal custody (joint) or one parent may have sole legal custody.
Physical custody addresses where the child lives. Parents may share physical custody, or one parent may have primary custody while the other has scheduled visitation.
Courts make custody decisions based on the best interests of the child, considering factors like the child’s age, relationship with each parent, stability, and safety.
Our Cary child custody lawyers represent parents in a wide range of custody-related matters, including:
We offer realistic, forward-thinking guidance tailored to your family’s unique structure and goals.
A parenting plan is a written agreement that outlines how parents will share time and responsibilities. A thoughtful parenting plan can reduce future conflict and provide your child with the consistency they need to thrive.
We help clients design parenting plans that address:
Whether you’re co-parenting peacefully or navigating a strained relationship, we’ll help you build a plan grounded in your child’s best interests.
Sometimes, parents cannot agree on custody. In contested cases, the court steps in to decide what arrangement best supports the child’s well-being. We serve clients in high-stakes custody disputes involving:
We work to present your case clearly and respectfully, backed by facts, expert testimony if needed, and a firm understanding of North Carolina custody law.
If you or your co-parent wants to move to a different city, state, or country, it may significantly impact your custody arrangement. These cases can be emotionally and legally complex.
We assist clients with:
Our goal is to protect the child’s relationship with both parents—regardless of geography.
Life changes. As children grow and family circumstances evolve, your custody arrangement may need to be updated. North Carolina law allows custody modifications when there has been a substantial change in circumstances, such as:
We help you file or respond to modification requests with strategy, evidence, and respect for what your child needs now.
If your co-parent is violating a custody order—by refusing visits, moving without notice, or undermining your role—you do not have to tolerate it. Our Raleigh child custody lawyers help clients:
Likewise, if you’re being unfairly accused of violating a court order, we provide a strong defense grounded in the facts and your rights.
We don’t handle dozens of practice areas. We focus on families every day,
Whether you are a married couple, unmarried parents, co-parents, or stepparents, we offer inclusive, thoughtful legal support.
We do do not just help you win today, we help you plan for tomorrow.
Your child’s safety, stability, and emotional health are always our top priorities.
We proudly serve clients in Raleigh, Cary, Wake Forest, Morrisville, and across Wake County.
Our board-certified specialists lead every case with strategy, care, and a commitment to your best outcome.
I cannot recommend Tony Kehoe enough. His expertise in family law, attention to detail, and calm, confident approach made a meaningful difference in the family law matters he has assisted...
I cannot recommend Tony Kehoe enough. His expertise in family law, attention to detail, and calm, confident approach made a meaningful difference in the family law matters he has assisted me with. Tony is consistently prepared, communicative, and thoughtful in his approach. I appreciate his clear guidance and professionalism throughout the process and am thankful for his support. I look forward to continuing to work with him at Ellis Family Law!
Great company, with amazing service. The staff is awesome and we felt very comfortable working with them.
...Great company, with amazing service. The staff is awesome and we felt very comfortable working with them.
Great company to use! Lawyers are knowledgeable and support staff is very responsive! Which is all you can ask. If you need help ask for EMILEE! She’s the best.
...Great company to use! Lawyers are knowledgeable and support staff is very responsive! Which is all you can ask. If you need help ask for EMILEE! She’s the best.
I spoke to Gray and was very impressed with his Family Law passion and expertise. If you are looking for TRUE experts they have 3 board certified attorneys at the...
I spoke to Gray and was very impressed with his Family Law passion and expertise. If you are looking for TRUE experts they have 3 board certified attorneys at the firm. I would highly recommend Ellis Family Law!
Sarah M. brings such great energy and professionalism to everything she does. She’s reliable, detail-oriented, and always goes the extra mile. I’m so glad I got to work with her—she...
Sarah M. brings such great energy and professionalism to everything she does. She’s reliable, detail-oriented, and always goes the extra mile. I’m so glad I got to work with her—she made the whole experience feel effortless. Definitely someone you want on your side!
Everyone at Ellis was wonderful before, during, and after my divorce. But my biggest kudos go to Autumn Osborne, who supported me legally and helped me navigate some tricky situations...
Everyone at Ellis was wonderful before, during, and after my divorce. But my biggest kudos go to Autumn Osborne, who supported me legally and helped me navigate some tricky situations with grace, ease, and experience. She’s down to earth but professional, very busy but always responsive, and I just felt like she got me -and my situation – from the very beginning. I cannot recommend her more highly!!
Whether you’re creating a custody plan, modifying an old one, or navigating a dispute that impacts your child’s future, we’re here to help you move forward with clarity and care.
Because your child deserves more than legal answers. They deserve a parenting plan that works.
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